To Come or Not to Come: Female Sexuality and Pleasure

(Yes, I am going to talk about orgasms!)

Growing up, I remember several moments with my girlfriends or my cousins when we giggled about ‘those scenes’, watched the pirated version of Fifty Shades at home, or went shopping to try on outfits that we were not allowed to wear outside.

On many occasions, I felt emotions, urges, and desires for which I had not known a word. I could not explain it, and I never came across any of my female friends mention anything similar. It was not until my ex said, ‘masturbation’, and…